3 Negative to Positive Thought Flips for a Better Career Perspective

3 Negative to Positive Thought Flips for a Better Career Perspective

Boosting Your Self-Esteem Will Give You a Fresh Outlook

When you’re down on yourself and thinking negatively, it can permeate into your current career, or you might not be landing the job that you want if you’re looking for one.

Shift your perspective and change how you feel about your job situation and outlook.

Take Brenda for example, she was feeling drained and defeated by recent comments about her “fun factor” at work. She had been told by a fellow employee to “lighten up” at work and not take everything so seriously. This put her into a tailspin of depression and self doubt when she shared it with her family and they agreed that she needed to lighten up. Brenda was drained and felt unappreciated in her life and work. In her mind, she felt that everything she did was for the future of her family and work and it was serious business. She was left feeling conflicted and full of self-doubt at work and home which was affecting her performance.

She came to me looking for ways to change her “fun factor”.

After working together and defining what she considered fun, it was clear that having order and structures in place where important to her in order to have space in her mind for enjoyment. Once she felt things had a purpose and place, she was able to relax, lighten up and actually have fun.

We looked at the positive qualities of a person that had a personality like hers. We were able to come up with terms like: responsible, leadership, organization and goal oriented. We role-played situations in her work where her strengths were demonstrated and how others benefited from them.

She found that her personality contributed to the ability for others to take a lighter role and enjoy their work because of her traits and work habits. She felt fulfilled seeing the flow and dynamics of others enjoying their jobs that she organized. This was her enjoyment, which made her happier and content.

In the end, she didn’t change a thing, but rather embraced her own characteristics seeing how her characteristics contributed to others in a positive way.

She became happier and it showed in all areas of her life!

If you were to describe yourself, you might say some negative characteristics, like, “I’m no fun.” You might say that because you have heard it from others or perhaps because you don’t find yourself smiling and laughing a lot.

How could you shift this thought into one that empowers you to have a new view of where you stand with your career or job search?

The answer is to flip the negative to a positive.

  1. I Am No Fun.

This inward statement becomes “I am serious and responsible” when you focus on the positive. Doing so can give you insights into what kind of work you enjoy and more confidence that you are just the kind of employee employers want.

A serious and responsible worker is someone who completes their tasks, is helpful to customers, and who takes the initiative to solve a problem when they see it without being asked to.

If you’re a serious and responsible person, you also probably prefer a certain type of work culture, which is important to know if you’re going to job interviews. Ask about the culture of the company, and pay attention to clues from other employees and the building’s environment when you are there to interview. Do you think you’d enjoy working there?

  1. I’m too Opinionated.

If you’ve been told that you’re too opinionated, and you believe it, it’s time to look at the situation differently. While there is definitely a time and place to share your opinion and a nice way to do it, you can say, instead, “I’m a leader, and I’m courageous and able to take charge.”

When no one else will say what needs to be said for the organization to move forward, you are the one spearheading the efforts to get the organization going in the right direction. If you have ideas about how things should be done, you’ve got the guts to lead a group and help ensure that those ideas are implemented.

A good leader always listens to those around them and takes their thoughts and advice into consideration, but, by sharing your own ideas in a constructive way, you’re helping the company take steps toward improvement.

  1. I’m Not a Good Decision Maker.

Feeling like you’re not great at finding solutions to problems can be reframed as “I’m a person who takes all views into consideration.” You are someone who does not blindly make decisions without considering the risks involved.

You seek out the input of all stakeholders, which is a truly team-oriented action. When you have all the information you think is necessary, then you can make a decision for your organization or for the next step in your job search.

It can be difficult to make decisions, but, by taking active steps to research the situation, you’ll be equipped to make the right choice when it’s time.

Viewing negative statements about yourself from a different perspective can help you improve your self-esteem and help you feel great about the job you have or the job search process.

When you have a positive perspective about yourself everyone benefits.

Raz Coaching specializes in helping people with executive function challenges associated with ADHD, PTSD, Stress, TBI’s and ASD find careers they will love and land them. Read more at www.razcoaching.com/about Or sign up for the weekly blog and learn about my new book Happiness+Passion+Purpose.

 

 

Up Cycle Your Old Resume to Get the Most in a New Career Focus

Up Cycle Your Old Resume to Get the Most in a New Career Focus

“Use your past to create your future with purpose and intent” – Michelle Raz

 Take Action

Go search for your resume on your computer, or grab the most recent copy sitting on your desk.

Now, sit down, and take a close look at it. You’re not looking at it to revise or update it. You’re examining it closely to see if the jobs you’ve done in the past are really what you’re most interested in doing and what kind of work you’re best suited for.

When you’re looking for a job, knowing what has gone well and what hasn’t in a job from the past will help you make the best decision about which job to apply to next. It gives insight into what types of work you would enjoy the most and which you would perform the best at.

Now, settle back with your resume and maybe a notepad and pen to make some notes. This activity can help you avoid being one of the 51 percent of the 100 million full-time workers in the US who don’t feel like they are really connected to their jobs or one of the 16 percentwho resent their jobs and complain to colleagues all the time.

Read Each Job Title.

Ask yourself whether you liked each particular position you’ve held. Were there aspects of it that got you excited about doing the work? What parts of it didn’t you like?

Also, ask yourself if each job matched your personality. Did it mesh well with how you like to work?

Consider the Job Environment and the Position Itself.

Did the working environment work for you?

What factors about the job or the working environment led you to quit or leave?

What job duties did you particularly excel at? Which ones were more challenging to you?

Now, Dig a Little Deeper.

Consider whether each position matched the values that you hold now. Embrace the fact that you may have changed over the years in what you think is important for your life.

If a job didn’t match your values, how did it go against them?

Think about what made you excited to get to work at each job. Those are the parts of the job that you want to look for in a new position.

Analyze what you most definitely did not get excited about at work. Did you get bored? Those are the aspects of a job you want to avoid in a job search.

With the information you can garner from looking more closely at your resume, you’ll be empowered to search for a job that matches your particular needs and desires for your work. When you get a job you’re excited about doing, you’re more likely to be successful and enjoy yourself while on the clock.

Take your notes with the new insights and work your resume around what did work for you and what you want to have more of in your next job. Highlight the areas that are important to you in your newly up-cycled resume and the right employer match will pick up on your assets. It just may help you create the work environment you truly desire for yourself.

No more dead-end jobs that you are just doing to get by until the “right one” comes along.

Raz Coaching specializes in helping people with executive function challenges associated with ADHD, PTSD, Stress, TBI’s and ASD find careers they will love and land them. Read more at www.razcoaching.com/about Or sign up for the weekly blog and learn about my new book Happiness+Passion+Purpose.

5 Career Advantages You Get By…. Volunteering

5 Career Advantages You Get By…. Volunteering

Volunteer Your Way To A Career

“What is the essence of life? To serve others and to do good.” – Aristotle

Whether you’re an experienced employee seeking a new career, or about to enter the workforce without a clear idea of your ideal profession, you can’t go wrong by volunteering.

Seriously…

Volunteering may not directly pay the bills, but have you ever thought about volunteering your way into a career that you’ll love?

Because let’s face it:

It’s 2019, and simply sending out your resume for just any old job that looks interesting isn’t going to cut it.

But don’t worry.  I’m about to let you in on an untapped strategy secret: the power of volunteering as part of your career development.

Here are five high-value, low-risk advantages to help you discover your ideal career through volunteering.

The Fabulous Five Advantages

1.   Expand your networking: not only will you meet an entirely new group of people as a volunteer, usually you’ll be in a friendly environment without a lot of pressure. This frees you to relax and be yourself with people who share your interests. You can make more meaningful connections, and have more genuine conversations, than are sometimes possible at formal networking events.

2.   Discover your volunteer personality: the more you understand yourself, the better you can home in on a volunteer opportunity that will help you discover your dream career. A good place to start is with the Myers-Briggs test. You’ll discover your strengths, your communication and learning styles, and the type of training you may need for the career you desire.

3.   Receive free training: And speaking of training, when you volunteer you have the opportunity to receive free training that may otherwise cost you hundreds or thousands of dollars. If your idea of volunteering has been limited to stuffing envelopes or answering phones, good news! You could learn how to design a website, manage a project, or become a top-notch fundraiser. The list is endless.

4.   Get early access to employment openings: because you’ll be a part of an organization that’s hiring, you’ll have become known to a group of people as someone reliable and competent. When job openings become available in your organization (or one in its network), you’ve got people who will vouch for you. Employers often go with someone known to them, even over someone who on paper is more qualified, so you’ll have a definite advantage.

5.   Test your purpose: Eleanor Roosevelt said, “The purpose of life is to live it, to taste and experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experiences.” If you already know your life purpose, excellent! What better way to put it to a test than to volunteer in the field you’ve chosen? And if you haven’t yet had the opportunity to discover your purpose, there are ways to uncover it so you can learn which organizations might be a good fit for your talents and passion. When you infuse your life purpose into your chosen volunteer work – well, look out, world, you’re going to be on fire!

See how volunteering can propel you down the path to your ideal career? Yet it’s often overlooked by people when they are deciding on a profession.

Over To You

If you spend a significant amount of time wondering “I’m not sure if this is the right career choice! What if I hate it?”, I feel you.

Choosing a profession is a huge commitment. You can’t afford to take a shot in the dark, fingers crossed, hoping for the best.

There are so many different organizations with a wide variety of opportunities within them, you may find to your surprise that it’s hard to choose because of the abundance. And isn’t that a lovely spot to be in?

Give your choice a chance without risking everything. Even if you realize you made a mistake, the worst that’s happened is you’ve given up some of your time and effort and probably made a few friends on the journey.

But along the way you’ve made a difference to someone else’s life. You’ve gotten to know yourself better.

Volunteering extra bonus benefit: Actively being a good person and making a positive impact in your own life and many others!

Raz Coaching specializes in helping people with executive function challenges associated with ADHD, PTSD, Stress, TBI’s and ASD find careers they will love and land them. Read more at www.razcoaching.com/about Or sign up for the weekly blog and learn about my new book Happiness+Passion+Purpose.

7 Interventions for ADHD

7 Interventions for ADHD

7 Intervention Strategies For Help With Your ADHD

ADHD can be the chain holding you back from your success in life.

Some nights you lay awake at 3am wondering what more you can do to optimize your success. Surely there are other strategies that can help with ADHD?

You’ve been using self-help strategy after self-help strategy to give yourself the best possible advantage. Maybe you’ve even noticed an improvement in your symptoms.

But deep down, you know it’s not quite enough and wonder what else is out there to help.

Here are seven intervention strategies for you to consider. Some you can do on your own; some require a professional or a prescription.

The Transdiagnostic Interventions

Transdiagnostic intervention is a fancy term for a single treatment that applies to and is effective for multiple disorders rather than just one.

Five of the seven strategies I’ve laid out here fall into the transdiagnostic category, which is especially helpful if you’ve got more than one disorder. For example, if you also have an anxiety disorder – like many people with ADHD do – these treatments will help with that too.

Here are the first five:

  1. Nutritional intervention: because there’s evidence that deficiencies of polyunsaturated fatty acids (PUFA) could be related to ADHD, supplementing your diet with a combination of Omega-3 and Omega-6 fatty acids could help improve your ADHD symptoms. Although better results have been observed with children and teenagers, this treatment also holds promise for adults.

 

  1. Cognitive retraining: cognitive retraining programs focus on building specific skills like attention, problem solving, or reading comprehension. Your skills are improved by games and exercises. Most modern brain training programs use video or computer game formats, while some in-person programs use physical games or worksheets. You can find helpful do-it-yourself cognitive retraining tools online, or you can consult a professional.

 

  1. Brain stimulation interventions: one that shows promise is transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS), which is a non-invasive procedure that uses magnetic fields to stimulate nerve cells in the brain to improve symptoms of ADHD. The second is transcranial direct current stimulation, another non-invasive, painless brain stimulation treatment in which direct electrical currents are used to stimulate specific parts of the brain. These must be administered by a trained professional.

 

  1. Psychotherapeutic interventions: cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) has been shown to have significant benefits for ADHD. CBT exercises for adult ADHD include training in time management, prioritization, organization, problem solving, motivation, and emotional regulation. You’ll need to work with a cognitive behavioral therapist.

 

  1. Yoga, mindfulness, and meditation-based interventions: these interventions had a statistically significant effect on the outcomes of ADHD symptoms such as hyperactivity and inattention, as well as executive functioning and on-task behavior. You can find a wide variety of training for all three of these modalities both online and offline.

 

Pharmacological Interventions

Pharmacological interventions are the first line of treatment of adult ADHD and have definite benefits in the short term; however, less is known about either the long-term benefits or risks of these medications. Keep this in mind if you need sustained treatment.

  1. Stimulants: stimulant medications are the most common type of medicine used to treat ADHD. They work by increasing the availability of certain chemicals in the brain, causing the brain pathways to work more effectively. Stimulants are commonly prescribed for a reason: they lessen ADHD symptoms in 70 percent to 80 percent of people who take them. But some people – maybe even you – experience bad side effects. Which takes us to the final of seven treatments on this list.

 

  1. Non-stimulants: there are several options of non-stimulates including ADHD-specific drugs, blood pressure medication, and antidepressants. Non-stimulants don’t tend to cause agitation, sleeplessness, or lack of appetite like stimulants do. They also don’t pose the same risk of abuse or addiction. You’ll need a prescription for these, same as for stimulant medications.

 

Give Yourself An Extra Advantage

You’re determined to succeed at your goals and not let ADHD hold you back.

You’ve already shown that you’re open to trying different strategies to give yourself an advantage; to succeed despite your ADHD

Now that you have this extra knowledge, see which of these seven intervention strategies might give you an added advantage.

Free yourself to get on with your goals!

Raz Coaching specializes in helping people with executive function challenges associated with ADHD, PTSD, Stress, TBI’s and ASD find careers they will love and land them. Read more at www.razcoaching.com/about Or sign up for the weekly blog or purchase my new book Happiness+Passion+Purpose.